According to blogger the last time I posted anything was June 25th. I don't know about you, but that seems like a long time ago. It's mean it's October. For those of you who know me personally, you know that I pretty much disappeared after starting to date someone seriously. Well this someone is going to be my husband in 8 days! I could give a long version of how we met and how it all happened, but for now I'll just say that when people tell you, "when you know, you know," they're not kidding. I'm definitely not saying that "knowing" makes it the easiest thing in the world to get married, but I will say it makes it easier in the hard times to know in your heart it is right.
So, I have a question for all of you who actually read this: have you ever felt so amazingly happy that you're scared of being unhappy ever again. Logically of course, this doesn't make sense, but I think some of you know what I'm talking about. We all know good and bad things happen, and life is always going to be a rollercoaster of the ups and downs, but do you ever feel afraid to be unhappy because in some way you've forgotten what real sadness feels like? Or because you never want to feel any different than you do at the moment, you hold on so tight not wanting to let go of what you have?
Just thinking. Respond if you would like. :-)
3 comments:
Those are some great thoughts! I've been trying to figure out my own relationship situation and this really helps. Thanks.
Well, we have to face the sorrow to know the joy...but Heavenly Father has given us someone to go through life with (if you're lucky enough to find them). It is scary to think about what might come. We have faced things I never, ever imagined. And we have come out of it stronger and more in love. I don't know if that's what you wanted to hear, but those are my thoughts. :)
I cannot even begin to tell you how happy I am for you! Can't wait to see you again and meet your hubby!
Wow Liz! Congratulations! That is awesome. And the whole "when you know, you know" thing happened with me, too. Lightening fast. Congrats!
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